We find ourselves in situations we wish we weren’t in. A pickle, a tight spot, a rock, and a hard place. Sometimes we end up with a mental battle in our heads, at odds with everyone and everything but really we just at odds with ourselves.
When you’re not happy about something, sometimes yourself. You find it easier to deflect your shortcomings to someone else.
We find scapegoats that we can point fingers at to divert the attention away from ourselves.
“I’m unhappy because of how unsatisfactory my relationship is”, “I don’t have peace and always tired because of my stupid job”…
We blame the world and the people in it for our unhappiness and hardly take the blame ourselves.